Jess and I have been married for over ten years. One night about a year ago, in a moment of honesty, we admitted something to each other. Our sex life had become routine and boring.
It happened on the evening of her birthday. We’d had dinner and drinks at her favorite restaurant.
Later we were naked on the sofa in our living room. We’d been fucking for longer than usual and Jess hadn’t orgasmed.
Suddenly she said, “Ken, hold on, take a break!” I thought, “What the fuck?” As I withdrew my cock from her wet unsatisfied pussy, I asked, “What’s wrong?”
Jess said, “I love you babe and nothing will change that, but it’s my birthday. So another year of my life has passed.”
“I’m thirty-three years old, and we are having the same kind of sex we've had since we first met. It used to excite us both, but lately, we’ve gotten so routine it just doesn’t get it done for me anymore, Ken. You must feel it too, don’t you?”
Whoa, I had to be very careful about how I answered that question.
I think I’m like most guys. Any day we get laid or get our cocks sucked, it’s been a good day, but she was right. Our sex life had become, ‘been there, done that’.
Each time we had sex it was kind of a video replay of the last time. Most times, we’d both manage to get off, but the kicks it once provided, and the excitement, weren’t the same.
It shouldn’t have been like that. Jess is beautiful with a trim, tight body that always attracted glances from other guys, and sometimes women, at parties and other gatherings. Honestly, I’m not too bad-looking myself.
Often, I’d fantasize about sex with other women. I think most husbands do. I’d also imagined Jess fucking other guys while masturbating to porn. I’d never have suggested either to Jess for fear of her reaction.
So carefully I said, “Of course, things have gotten routine, Jess. But after more than ten-plus years together, that probably happens to most couples.”
Jess said, “Ken, we’re in the prime of our lives. I want to enjoy every aspect of life, especially sex.”
What was going on with her? Where was this headed?
So cautiously I replied, “Hon, I agree. If you have any ideas on how to spice things up, I’m listening. Maybe we should take more time away from home, so we’re fucking in different places? Start banging in mall parking lots? Spend weekends in sleazy motels or something?”
Jess, who is an attorney, said, “Ken, I have something to sort of confess.”
“Okay, what is it? You know you can tell me anything.”
So she started, “One day last week, when you were away overnight on business, I had lunch with a client couple. They’re Brian and Carrie. I’m handling the closing on their new home.”
“They came here to the house and picked me up for lunch to discuss some last-minute details for the closing. We had a nice lunch at Angelo’s, then I invited them back here for a drink. “
“One drink led to a few more and we were all feeling pretty relaxed. Carrie had a joint in her purse. She lit that up and we all indulged.”
“Things had gotten pretty loose after that, and the conversation eventually got around to marriage and sex.
I spilled to them how I was getting bored with our sex life, and that I suspected you felt the same, but I wasn’t positive.”
“They told me they had gone through the same problem with routine sex, about a year and a half ago, and what they did about it.”
So I asked Jess, “What did they say? Is it something you think we should try?”
“Carrie told me that one of the reasons they liked the new house they were buying was because they had ‘swinger’ friends that lived in the neighborhood. I was kinda shocked.”
My interest piqued, I asked, “Did you ask them about their swinger friends?”
“Of course, yeah! I wanted to know all about it. I couldn’t believe they were into that lifestyle.”
“Brian explained that, like us, their sex life had become stale. So he suggested to Carrie the possibility of them having sex with other partners.”
“At first, Carrie wasn’t receptive to the idea, but she’d gotten so frustrated that she could no longer orgasm with Brian. She could only get off by fantasizing or watching porn while using her vibrating dildo.”
“Finally, after weeks of Brian’s continual persuasion, she reluctantly agreed to them exploring the possibility.”
“They began to check websites for swinging couples and groups. Over a few weeks, they joined a few groups. They began to go to group parties and both had exciting satisfying sex with others. Both of them love the parties and are very into it.”